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The Ketubah: The
Jewish Marriage Contract
An Orthodox
Perspective by Rivka
C. Berman
How the Ketubah Came About
The ketubah is a Jewish marriage contract, which spells out a husbands obligations to his wife.
Judaism spells out three ways for a couple to marry with money (or something with monetary value), via contract or through sexual intercourse. To create a marriage, one of these three actions would take place with the intent to marry. (Mishna, Kiddushin 1:1) Later rabbis withdrew sex as a marriage-making act, flogging anyone who established solely through sex.
In the first century, Rabbi Simon ben Shetach (c. 100 B.C.E.) fashioned the wording the
ketubah to economically protect a woman in the event of divorce or widowhood. Safeguards were put in place to insure a woman would receive the ketubah settlement.
Divorce settlement costs were placed high enough to cause a husband to think twice before divorcing his wife. Berfore the ketubah was first instituted, wives could be dismissed by their husbands with a simple writ of divorcement. The ketubah was written so husbands shall not regard it easy to divorce their wives, according to the Talmud (Yebamot 89a).
In the tenth century, Rabbenu Gershom of Mainz (960-1028) fixed the pledges of support at a specific amount. Two hundred silver zuzim were promised; 100 zuzim would be paid to a woman at the end of a second marriage. This amount was enough in ancient times for a woman to invest and live off of the dividends. With a set amount of alimony stated, poor couples were thus spared embarrassment at the wedding ceremony when the ketubah was read aloud.
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