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Summary of the
Orthodox Wedding Summary
An Orthodox
Perspective by Rivka
C. Berman
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Kabbalat Panim Greeting the
Bride
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Chatans Tish - Grooms
reception: tenaim, and ketubah (wedding documents) are
signed, mothers of the bride and groom break a plate.
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Depending on the hour, mincha, the
afternoon service, may be prayed at this time.
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Bedeken the groom veils the
bride
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Processional Groom goes first,
attendants, and then the bride. Once the couple is standing under
the Chuppah, a special welcome song is chanted.
Circling Bride circles the groom.
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Another song, praising God who will bless the
bride and groom.
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(Letter of Blessing Lubavitch
couples will read the standard letter of blessing written for brides
and grooms by the Lubavitcher Rebbe (1902-1994).
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Priestly Blessing: A kohen blesses the
couple with the traditional three part priestly blessing. May the
Lord bless you and keep you
)
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Erusin the engagement
service.
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Blessing is said over wine.
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Engagement blessing is said.
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Groom and bride sip from the cup.
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Ring Ceremony - The groom says the
marriage formula: Harei at mekudeshet li
, Behold you are
sanctified unto me.
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The bride receives the ring
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Reading of Ketubah Marriage
contract is read in Aramaic. (Text is explained at some ceremonies)
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The ketubah is handed to the bride
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Nesuin the marriage blessings
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A second blessing over the wine is said.
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The marriage blessings are said.
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Groom and bride sip from the cup.
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Breaking the Glass The groom stamps
on and shatters a glass.
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Recessional
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Yichud
Union. The newlyweds retreat for some time alone together.
Reception Guests celebrate the marriage and gladden the newlyweds
with dancing and merrymaking. The meal is served.
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Grace After Meals Along with the
prayers that follow the consumption of bread, the sheva berachot,
seven marital blessings, are said over a cup of wine.
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